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The Newsletter of St. Lawrence Episcopal Church
Issue No. 8, Volume 97
August 2005
AN
ENDING...
On June 30, I called for a special meeting of the Vestry. The purpose
of the meeting was to announce that I had
accepted a call to a new parish. After twelve years of being rector
here, I will be leaving.
It is an emotional
time. It has been a privilege to serve the people of God in this
time and this place. You have invited me into your lives in profound
ways. Together, we have accomplished amazing things. I am immensely
grateful for the trust you have given me and for the affection you
have shown me. Consequently, as I said in a letter mailed to the
parish, “while there is much joy for me — and my family
— there is also much sadness as we anticipate leaving.”
…
and a New Beginning
As we anticipate leaving, of course, we also anticipate moving.
And so, in addition to sadness, there is also considerable anxiety.
We don’t know where we’ll live yet. We don’t know
what “skeletons” we’ll discover in the proverbial
closets of our new parish home. But Barb and I trust that we have
been called by God to these “untrodden paths” (to borrow
some of the phrasing of the prayer cited by Heidi Neumark above),
and so we trust that God will remain our constant companion through
all those “perils unknown.”
As it is for
me and my family, the same is true for the whole St. Lawrence family.
There is inevitably a mixture of sadness and anxiety at such a time
as this, but I trust that there are wonderful new “ventures
of which we cannot see the ending” in store for the parish
as well.
Heidi Neumark
is a Lutheran pastor from New York. Her book, Breathing Space, chronicles
her reflections on ministry with a congregation in the Bronx. The
epilogue to that book opens with her contemplating a move to another
congregation in Manhattan. She writes of one conversation she had
at the time she announced the news:
When I announced
my leaving, one council member, Gladys, gave voice to what some
others were feeling, “Why fill up one hole by making another?”
And her answer,
in essence, is that she hoped the new “hole” she was
opening by leaving her old church would become a new place of grace.
My hopes for
you echo her hopes for that congregation. My sense is that God has
something new and wonderful in store for St. Lawrence. Somebody
new may need to help you discover what that new thing might be.
The last time this parish went through an interim process, the challenge
was to find your legs and get back on your feet. The challenge now,
I think, is for you to find your wings and learn to fly.
But
I’ve gotten ahead of myself…
When this issue of the newsletter goes to press, Barb and I will
be away on vacation, but I’ll return in August and I’ll
be here for virtually all that month. I hope we’ll have many
opportunities to visit and say good-bye properly. My final Sunday
with you will be on the 28th of August, a chance to give thanks
to one another and to our God for giving us such grace-filled moments
together.
Lord God,
you have called your servants
to ventures of which we cannot see the ending,
by paths as yet untrodden, through perils unknown.
Give us
faith to go out with good courage,
not knowing where we go,
but only that your hand is leading us
and your love supporting us.
— a
prayer from the Lutheran worship book,
cited by Heidi B. Neumark, in Breathing Space

FROM
THE WARDENS
Over the past twelve years the community of St. Lawrence, has grown
as a parish under the leadership of our Rector, Fr. Jed. Our parish
family has expanded and we have accepted challenge of building,
making room for more at our table and in our community.
Recently, we
learned that Fr. Jed has been called to be the rector of St. Mark’s
Episcopal Church in Medford, Oregon. In addition to his gifts as
a fine pastor, God has given Fr. Jed the gifts of building churches,
“Bricks and Bucks” and lifting up the ministry of others.
To some this may have come as an unsettling surprise and for others
it may cause some anxiety as we say good-bye and move into the next
phase of our lives as a community of faith. Rest assured that we
have already begun the process to ensure a smooth transition from
Fr. Jed’s Rector-ship to a new permanent Rector. In partnership
with the Diocese of Chicago, we will soon be appointing an Interim
Rector. It may appear that the process is moving very slowly; however
with the Diocese’s guidance we are getting our bearings and
making decisions that will facilitate a smooth transition as we
accept a full time Interim Rector into our lives.
Saying
goodbye. During an all parish event, after the 10:00 service,
on August 28, we will celebrate Fr. Jed’s ministry, and bid
him, Barb, Becky and Adam a final goodbye and God’s speed.
We ask that as we prepare for this event that you reflect on moments
that have been meaningful, poignant moments both happy and sad,
during Jed’s ministry. Reflect further on the incredible goals
that, with his leadership we have striven to meet. August is the
time to say farewell.
The road map
for this transition process including an expected time line is summarized
in the booklet entitled, “The Interim Process in the Diocese
of Chicago”. You will find copies of this in the office, in
the narthex and, via a link on our own website, www.stlawrencechurch.org,
in the “News“ section. As the process moves forward,
we will make every effort to keep you apprised of the milestones
as they occur; we will do this through announcements, the newsletter
and by being present and available.
A Transition
Committee, of former wardens, Robert Moseley, Betsy Swank and Hans
Karnstedt, has been established to help us in the process of shepherding
the parish in the weeks and months ahead. The committee will ensure
that we continue to function as a whole in all of our ministries.
With their collective experience and wisdom, we feel sure that the
work of this community will continue prayerfully through this time
of transition.
With the Interim
Rector we will work on our “Self-Study evaluation” so
that as a parish, we may discern our future direction and ministries
and with God’s help, who will be our new Rector to walk with
us towards these new horizons.
As we move forward,
there will be some things we cannot share with you - not because
we don’t want to, but because the process dictates that confidentiality,
regarding certain details, must be maintained. This confidentiality
begins as we search for our Interim Rector, so that their present
ministry may not be compromised. Further, once the search for a
permanent Rector is launched, only the search committee, will know
the identity of the candidates that are being considered.
As your wardens,
we are greeting our part of this challenging opportunity with enthusiasm
and dedication. We will actively strive to keep the lines of communication
wide open and keep the parish informed as much as possible during
the upcoming months. HOWEVER, we ask your indulgence
and patience, with so many details to keep straight, we may forget
to share something. Further, we ask that you work with us as we
endeavor to be sensitive to the needs of members of the parish,
the staff and the clergy and we ask your prayers for us.
As we reflect
on the departure of our Rector, mentor and friend we also look forward
to times of opportunity for each of us. During Fr. Jed’s ministry,
with us at St. Lawrence, we have grown and matured, as we move forward
we will prepare to consider where we are, presently, as a parish
and then where we believe we are called to go and who we are called
to be in the world. Once we have discerned this new path, we will
move forward with efficiency to call a permanent rector and together,
we will find our wings.
St. Lawrence
is a dynamic parish, growing in God’s love, as we move forward,
during this time of transition, we ask that you remain good stewards
of all that we have and all that we have become. We are the church
and as such, we will continue, “to be open to all, and to
grow in the knowledge and love of God, and to embody that love in
the service to the world around us” These last words come
from our mission statement, we ask that you continue to devote your
time and talent so that we may continue to grow, and nurture all
of God’s children and help to call a rector who will walk
with us to fulfill our mission.
We ask that
you always remember, that Jeanne and Frank encourage your questions,
concerns or suggestions as we travel this journey together.
Senior Warden
Jeanne Murphy can be reached at Valentinejam@sbcglobal.net
Junior Warden Frank Top can be reached at theTops4@comcast.net
A TIME
TO SAY FAREWELL.
Please join us as we say, “Farewell” to Fr. Jed and
his family after the 10:00 am service on Sunday, August 28th in
the Parish Hall. Please sign up to bring side dishes, desserts and
beverages. The entree will be provided. Please see the sign up sheet
in the Narthex to volunteer your edible contributions.
As a parting gift to Fr. Jed we wish to present him with a memory
book. A virtual, trip down memory lane, this compilation of thoughts,
pictures and mementos will be assembled as part of this memory book.
Please forward your insertions to Jennifer Kanches at kanches@comcast.net
in word format or in writing to:
450 Jackson Boulevard Grayslake, IL 60030 by no later than 8/21/05.
KICK–OFF
SUNDAY SEPTEMBER 11TH
“Kick-off Sunday” is rapidly approaching, This is the
day that Sunday School classes and Youth Groups start up again —
and you have the opportunity to identify ministries that you may
feel called to investigate or try out. Where would you like to share
you talents, with this community? This year, we get things started
on Sunday September 11, following the 9:00 am service.
The ministries
of St. Lawrence, including; pastoral care, formation, choir, worship
and so much more all will be on display in the Narthex. Maybe, you
excel with a hammer, pen or shovel, you may feel called to work
with the elderly or share your gifts in areas that we are not even
aware of, as yet. There is a place for YOU! We look forward to seeing
you on Sunday , Sept. 11th.!
AHH!
REFRESHING
St. Lawrence is now selling private label bottled water. With 100%
of the proceeds going to the church, it is a wonderful fundraiser.
It is for sale at Coffee-in-the-Park, every Thursday during Farmer’s
Market. For just a $1.00 you can enjoy a refreshing chilled bottle
of water. Many thanks to all of the volunteers for selling the water
on our behalf.
If you can’t
make it to Farmers Market, we are also selling it by the case for
$24.00. For orders, contact Mari MacDonald at, marimacdonald315@hotmail.com.
COFFEE-IN-THE-PARK
Coffee-in-the-Park runs through October and we are looking for volunteers
who would like to have fun for a couple of hours on a Thursday morning
sometime between 7:00 and 11:00 a.m. If you are available
and would like to help sell coffee, lemonade, bottled water and
donuts, please pick a date and sign up on the board on the table
in the Narthex.
“HE
(SHE) WHO SINGS, PRAYS TWICE” – ST. AUGUSTINE
Whether you’re in the choir or not, join in and sing! The
congregation is encouraged, requested, urged – even expected?
– to sing along with the hymns and service music. The anthem
is the only piece that the choir sings alone. Just as the pledges
and food donations are brought to the altar during the Offertory,
the anthem is the choir’s offering to God. The choir is there
to lead and sing with the congregation, not to perform before an
audience. So, on Sunday mornings, take a deep breath and sing out!
If you really
love to sing, the choir is the place for you. Have you ever wanted
to sing harmony but find it less than satisfying to do so alone
in the congregation? Choir gives you a chance to learn the alto,
tenor or bass parts of our beautiful music and to sing out. If you
just like to sing melody, but are reluctant to be heard, the choir
is a completely welcoming, accepting group where all skill levels
come together for the simple enjoyment of the music and for the
opportunity to praise God with our voices.
Choir is not
just for adults. High school students are welcome too. If you sing
in your school choir and want to share your talent with the parish,
we’d love it! And bring your parents if they like to sing
too. Music is a wonderful activity to share with family.
Best of all,
singing in the choir is fun. It is open to all, and no musical training
is required, although the ability to carry a tune is helpful. You
don’t even need to know what voice-part you’ll sing.
Wendy Unrath-Young, our Choir Director, will help you figure that
out.
The first choir
practice of the 2005-2006 program year will be Thursday, August
25, at 7:30 to 9:00 pm in the sanctuary. The choir practices every
Thursday evening at the same time and for thirty minutes before
the Sunday service. There is a choir robe just waiting for you!
Top
10 reasons to join the choir:
10. You’ll finally learn all the words to some of your favorite
hymns.
9. You’ll find out what “Hyfrydol” is.
8. You’ll always get a good parking spot.
7. You can wear anything you want to church – your choir
robe is all they’ll see.
6. You’ll always have a good place to sit, even on Christmas
Eve.
5. You can enjoy our great choir parties (and we try not to sing
with our mouths full).
4. You’ll learn a lot about music and the Anglican tradition.
3. You’ll get your own hymnal – you can even write
in it.
2. You’ll have some input on what we sing.
1. And, most importantly, you will glorify the Lord and have fun
doing it!
WOMEN'S
FRIDAY MORNING BIBLE STUDY
Learn more about the Psalms. Starting September 9th at 9:15
a.m. we will begin our fall study, "A 30-Day Walk With God
in the Psalms" by Nancy Leigh DeMoss. Based on 30 of
Nancy's favorite Psalms, her study takes participants through
the necessary step to:
* Prepare your heart for God
* Listen to God
* Discover what each passage says
* Explore what each passage means
* Make the passage a part of your life
* Respond to God
* And more!
Join us in the
Fireside Room from 9:15 to 10:15 a.m. Childcare will
be provided in the church nursery.
SUNDAY
SCHOOL NEWS
Plans are underway for the upcoming Sunday school year. We are still
in need of teachers, so if you would like to share some time and
your experience with the children of St. Lawrence, please contact
Wendy Guarnaccio. The following individual have generously committed
to these Board positions;
Coordinator
- Wendy Guarnaccio
Special Events - Julie Feely and Sue Vogg
Supplies - Cathy Adamsick and Ann Carrano
Catechesis of the Good Shepherd - Jeanne Neifert
Choir - Mark Feely and Andrea Larson
We will be having
a meeting for all teachers and Sunday school board members at the
end of August. Look for further information.
KEEPING GOD’S PEOPLE SAFE
Keeping God’s People Safe is a Diocesan training program to
prevent child sexual and adult sexual harassment & exploitation.
HOLD THIS DATE:
SAT., SEPT. 24th.
ST.MARY – CRYSTAL LAKE
Adult Ministry – 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 noon.
Children’s Ministry – 1:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.
MARK YOUR CALENDAR NOW! MORE INFO TO FOLLOW
This training
is mandated by the Standing Committee of the Diocese of Chicago
for persons involved in the following ministries:
Children
& Adult Programs
Adult Ed Teachers
Acolyte Director
Church School Teachers
Nursery Workers
Committee Chair
Vestry Members
Parish Musician
L.E.M.s
Organist/Choir Master
Parish Musician
Secretarial
Staff Treasurer
Youth Group Volunteers
Youth Group Leaders
For more information
please contact, Tony Wolff at 847 223-5061 or look on the Diocesan
website, wwwepischicago.org.
WHOSE
CHURCH IS IT ANYWAY?
We have a great opportunity to learn more about teaching. If you’ve
ever taught Sunday school or led a youth group or facilitated an
adult education class — or ever thought you might —
THIS IS SOMETHING FOR YOU!
Episcopalians
from across the upper Midwest are sponsoring a two-day conference
for those who work in formation ministry with children, youth, and
adults.
The conference
will be held on August 26-27, 2005, and is conveniently located
at the Conference Center at the University of St. Mary of the Lake
in Mundelein. The registration deadline is August 1. Registration
forms are in the office or contact Tony Wolff at 847 223-5061.
ST.
LAWRENCE BOOK GROUP NEWS
The St. Lawrence Book Group is looking for new members to join in
our monthly discussions! The book group meets the 2nd Monday of
each month (September through June) in the Fireside Room.
We are kicking
off the year with The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini. One
review of The Kite Runner states “in his debut novel,
The Kite Runner, Khaled Hosseini accomplishes what very
few contemporary novelists are able to do. He manages to provide
an educational and eye-opening account of a country's political
turmoil--in this case, Afghanistan--while also developing characters
whose heartbreaking struggles and emotional triumphs resonate with
readers long after the last page has been turned over.”
This book has been the New York Times Bestseller list for months
and promises to be a good read. Please join us on Monday, September
12th at 7:30 to discuss this critically acclaimed book.
Also included
is the entire list of books chosen to read for this year. Please
keep this list handy, and consider joining the St. Lawrence Book
Group this year!
2005
-2006 St. Lawrence Book Group Selections
September – The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini
October – Keeping the Faith by Jodi Picoult
November – The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time
by Mark Haddon
December – Confessions of a Pagan Nun by Kate Horsely
January – A Thread of Grace by Mary Doria Russell
February – Stolen Lives: Twenty Years in a Desert Jail
(non-fiction) by Malika Oufkir, Michele Fitoussi, Ros Schwartz
March – The Portrait of a Lady by Henry James
April – A Song of Names by Norman Lebrecht
May – Saturday by Ian McEwen
June – The Mermaid Chair by Sue Monk Kidd
FINAL MARKET DAY SALE
Our final Market Day pick-up date for this summer is Wednesday,
August 10th. Order forms are available in this issue of the Church
Street News as well as in the church office. Paper order forms are
due back in the office by Monday, August 1st. However, you may order
online at www.marketday.com until noon on Saturday, August 6th.
Market Day offers
a variety of meats, family meals, breakfast foods, snacks, and beverages
all conveniently packaged. Most meats are individually packaged
which makes it great for families of any size. Proceeds from Market
Day go into the outreach funds distributed annually by the Episcopal
Church Women (ECW).
You may pick
up your Market Day items on Wednesday, August 10th. PLEASE
NOTE THE PICK-UP TIME IS 4:30 TO 5:30. We will also need
volunteers to assist with distributing the food on the dates of
the sales. Contact Liz Halbert at 847-918-1363 or Julia Karnstedt
at 847-549-7024 with any questions.
HAVE
YOU MET…?
The Invitational Ministry Team is introducing a new feature in the
newsletter. We will highlight two families a month with a picture
and brief bio. If you haven’t yet met these relatively new
families, you may find that you have something in common!
Bob
and Jean Ostroga
Bob and Jean were introduced to St. Lawrence about a year ago by
their neighbors, Jim and Jean Dunsing (former members). Bob was
raised Roman Catholic and Jean raised Methodist, but they had not
attended church for awhile. They immediately liked St. Lawrence.
Bob likes that the church is a smaller size where he already knows
people, and Jean said her feelings upon arriving at St. Lawrence
were like being “welcomed into the family.”
Bob and Jean
were married on Dec. 12, 2003 in their home in Red Top in Libertyville.
Bob has two daughters – Julie who is an accountant in Gurnee
and Jennifer who is studying psychology at Kansas University. Jean
has a daughter, Kathy, who is a biologist at Abbott and a son, Todd,
who is a linguist in the Navy. Bob is the president of a small company
in Libertyville and Jean works as the Assistant to the President
of the Bridgeview Bank in Lincolnshire. Both of them enjoy golfing,
going downtown, and attending concerts.
Bob and Jean
attend the 7:30 service on Sundays and also enjoy the Centering
Prayer service on the second Sunday of the month.
Dave and Julie Quandt
Dave and Julie were married on April 27, 1991 at St. Mark’s
Episcopal Church in Geneva, IL. They now live in Prairie Crossing
in Grayslake and are the parents of seven year old twins, Lura and
Andy. The children attend Fremont School. After checking out many
churches in the area, they decided to make St. Lawrence their home
after Easter in 2004. Their favorite things about St. Lawrence are
how friendly the parish is, and the traditional service.
Dave is an engineer
at Abbott Labs and Julie is an Information Security Manager at the
Federal Reserve Bank in Chicago. They enjoy biking and spending
as much time as they can in the summer at Julie’s parents’
beach home in Sawyer, Michigan. They are also very busy with the
children’s activities.
Julie was one
of the Storytellers at the Easter Vigil service last year and has
played flute during services. They are considering teaching Sunday
School in the coming year. Now that they attend a church closer
to home, they plan to get more involved. The Quandts usually attend
the 9:00 service. They are sorry to see Jed go and are curious to
see where the parish will go with his leaving.
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